We met serving coffees and sandwiches. London
has helped me to grow up, to meet different kind of people and make special good
friends. Coming back to real life I can’t stop thinking that I don’t regret my
decision of going to London in a new adventure and trying to find something
better, it doesn’t matter if I got it or not. I am not use to make interviews
to my friends, but I have never had a friend from India. Today, trying to
cultivate a new piece of dry field, I take the opportunity to go next to the
journalism, which has been far away from me along some months. Today I write
again next to the sea with the best feeling of eating the world. Today I want
to share with my readers the wealth of my friend Samir. See you soon my friend.
J
Samir Kumar Ghosh is 26 years old and he was
born in Dhaka, Bangladesh
Question. How long are you living here in UK
and why you decide to come to London?
Answer. Well, I passed my three and half years in the
UK and I went there for higher studies. I wanted to finish my graduation there.
At that time I had no other dreams but when I went there I got lots of
interesting thing in my life, and learned lots of things from the UK big city
London. I learned how to live a lonely life without family, I met with new
friends from different countries, and I enjoyed each and every moment with
that. I learned how to survive a difficult situation, and how to face the
challenge, I learned how to affect a political system on the ordinary people’s
life. In that case I want to continue my studies more in there. That’s why I
will apply for ‘Master Business Administration’ again at any good university in
the UK city London.
Q. You
are far away from your people. How do you carry on? Is it difficult?
A. Sometimes it’s difficult, but life
is a journey, and one day everyone can find their destination. I am looking for
it as well, and hopefully I will get it soon because I am really passionate to
find something new which makes me proud.
Q. Tell me things about your culture, your
religion.
A. My religion is Hindu. But my
countries most of the peoples are Muslims. On the other hand Bangladesh belongs to mixed religions like Christian,
Buddhist and so on. Our peoples are very happy because we believe that all
religions are true and honest, and this is part of our culture, we enjoying
each and every region festive also we respect that. We are the people with lots
of emotions, sympathy and kindness. We always respect our oldest citizens. Like
in any occasion we Youngers always touch the feet of our parents before we
start any good things, we believe our parents are second God of us. I really
love my mom and dad, and I respect them a lot. And I think you will never get those cultures in any
country.
Q. The importance of a smile for you.
A. Well, it’s really a good question. I think nowadays
most of the people are fake, too much diplomatic and practical in their lifes.
And because of that reason their smiles are fake now. But you can say it’s my
good quality to understand when people smile and realize if it comes from heart
or not. For me a smile is symbol of innocence, smile is a symbol of love,
happiness and to make someone’s life happier. Smile can connect one person to
another. Smile can remove the sadness. Smile can brings lots of magical moments
someone’s life (of course a pure and real smile). I think when people love own
self and love others and can sacrifice for someone at that time you can find a
real and beautiful smile from them.
Q. The strength of spirit.
A. All credits goes to my parents. I
want to see them happy at all the time. So they are my strength.
Q. Are you lucky? Why?
A. I don’t know that I’m lucky or not.
What I got till now, everything I got for my hard work and my dedication, but I
didn’t get anything easily. And I don’t mind it, because I don’t like to get
anything by shortcut, because I believe life has not shortcut. But in another
way I am so lucky because I got my lovely parents and I learned lots of
beautiful things from them. Like I learned from my dad how to keep myself
honest and never feel guilty to lose something. My dad always said to me: ‘’never
stop our self, in our life most of the time you will face a difficult
situation, but don’t give up, don’t feel everything is finished, something
better is waiting for you, so never stop and keep walking, one day you will
find out’. I learned from my mom how to love to other people, how to
sacrifice something for others, and lots of things. You know I am not able to
finish the answer because it will never finish.
Q. What do you think about English people?
A. Well, I think they are ok. I have three friends and they are English and
also good friends of mine. I have not
that much complain about them. Because that time I was too busy with my study
and work. So I couldn’t get time to justify their mind. I can say overall its
fine.
Q. Who is a good person for you?
A. I always give more important to my
family. So my mom and dad is my idol and they are good person for me. I learned
too many good things from them. I learned from them how to care and how to take
responsibility for others.
Q. Which are your goals in life?
A. I have passion about music and
genetically I got business thought because my father is a business man. So if I
combine both of them, then I can say that I want to be a singer also a good
business person.
Q. What have you study and why you
have being in Benugo such a long time?
A. Well, recently I finished ‘Bachilerator
Business Administration’. Maybe very soon I will take admission for ‘Master Business
Administration’. I love to learn or you can say I am hungry to learn something
new. And when I arrived in London I was looking for a job which can help me to
survive. So Benugo was my first job. And one interesting thing is before Benugo
I never worked in my life, so you can say from Benugo I learned how to work hard
also I learned what is meaning of life. I continued to work in Benugo because
of it was my first job that I earned money from that place. At first that place
gave me the value of my work, It doesn’t matter for me that how much I earned;
the matter is I got something from my hard work. Also I learned lots of things
which I really wanted to learn. I got some lovely people as a customer who just
came to Benugo only to talk with me, and I really enjoyed to serving them. I have one rule in my life: “If I got something from someone, I never ever
forget that”. Might be that time I got lots of experience and it was too easy
to change my job and I could get a better job, also I got an offer from other
company and I did that job with Benugo but I couldn’t leave Benugo, because I
had emotional attachment with Benugo. I
really thankful to Benugo, because I got you as my friend on that platform. I am really missing you.
Q. Your family for you.
A. My family is life. My parents loves
me a lot, and I think till now only I can see endless love for me from my
parents. Maybe one day I could find that girl who can love me same like as my
parents. I don’t like selfish people, because those kinds of people have no
idea of the meaning of love. Another thing is some of my friends told me that I
could be a good husband and good father. I don’t know because I am still
single. And I think It could be happen in future, if I will get my dream girl
who knows the meaning of love and totally honest from inside also outside, I
mean from heart.
Q. The
person you love most in the world.
A. My parents…………………………
"Mireia now what I am telling you that is out of your
question. You are such a good girl. I never forget you and your lovely smile.
My bad luck is that I got you few days ago before leave UK. Still I can feel
your innocence, I can see your pretty smile which was totally pure and came
from your heart. Thank you very much for your lovely interview. You gave me
really nice questions which is I can only deserve from you. On that particular
question helped me to know something more about you, like how you think, how
you feel and how you see this world. I can say in this world it’s really hard
to get your kind of person who always thinks about someone. I am waiting to see
you again.
Take
care Mireia
God bless you"
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